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The Gentle Smith Matriarch



We met in 1966 when she was 18 and I was 22. We began dating soon afterward, and as I recall never disagreed on much. Our childhood homes were 3000 miles apart and we loved Minnesota and each other, so we got engaged in July 67, married in December and moved into a house with a teenage foster daughter. This was followed by , Daughter 1 the following September, Daughter 2 three years later, Daughter 3, a year and a half later, ..and eventually Son, 3 years later. There were also about 15 different short-term teen-foster boys in those years.

The gentle matriarch has worked her whole life, hard. I went to college nights for a few years, she worked outside the home part-time while the kids were growing. She spent frugally, loved lavishly, and has always cared first and foremost about her family. She is a gentle giant who has brought love, fun, discipline, imagination, good food, and artistic, creative homemaking to our big family....and as I write this she's preparing for Easter Dinner.

We're a blessed family. Thank you Nana! If you had told me 42 years ago that it would turn out this wonderfully, I would have said "That would be so cool, if only it could!"

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scott said…
I have memories of your "gentle matriarch"one of which was before collage she was pounding on her bedroom wall trying to get my brother and I to stop whatever we were doing...from wrestling or perhaps having a spit-wad fight at 7am on a Saturday morning ...thus waking up dad who would then come in our room ..the hole in the door where he put his fist in it... should let you know the rest of the story ....but I was sad the day she left for Collage. The "gentle matriarch" made the best popcorn,cheese crisps and many other things I remember as a kid..she is also the best sister a guy could ever ask for ! Your a lucky man PRS.
scott said…
Hey Paul,
It's me Kim...shock as that may be! I have yet to get involved in blogging., posting or whatever the case may be but I just read your last couple posting and I couldn't help but imagine you at 13 and relate to what you had to say. I always appreciate your words and wisdom and will make it a point to check in on what you have to say....
Keep it up. It's great and I enjoy it! I love you and miss you. Love you much. Kim
Vivi said…
Very sweet post, dad. Mom's always done a great job of taking good care of us and all the "things" around us - making events special, keeping things organized, helping out where ever help was needed. Nice tribute to your lady.
Hilary said…
We love her, too!
Sally said…
Ahh shucks, thanks everyone
Mom / Nana said…
AnOTHER "Mom/Nana", that is ... it's Sandie!

I absolutely adore this picture of Sally, and enjoyed so much this wonderful tribute to this very special lady. I am honored and blessed to have such a dear friend in Sally and cherish my relationship with your entire family. In my best su'thun drawl ... You two dun good!!! ;)

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